Intimacy Coach, Best Selling Author, Sensuality, Erotic Arts, & BDSM PRACTITIONER!
When “Never” Becomes “Maybe” Online Class
Revisiting Hard Limits with Consent and Curiosity
Some limits are meant to stay firm. Others... evolve.
This class isn’t about pushing past boundaries—it’s about understanding the ones that might be ready to soften. Whether you're a seasoned explorer of kink or just beginning to map your desires, this workshop invites you to pause, reflect, and ask: What if that hard limit isn’t as hard as it used to be?
Through guided reflection, trauma-informed frameworks, and ethical tools for communication, you'll learn how to revisit boundaries with curiosity—not pressure.
🔍 We’ll explore:
✨ Why we create hard limits—and how they protect us
✨ How curiosity and healing can shift old boundaries
✨ Red flags vs green lights in renegotiating consent
✨ Scripts and tools for safe, shame-free exploration
✨ How to design a trial scene or edge-play container
This class is for you if:
💬 You’ve felt a quiet curiosity around an old “no”
🛑 You want to make sure it’s your choice—not someone else’s
🌱 You’re interested in growth, embodiment, and agency in your kink journey
🗓️ Date & Time: Thursday, May 29, 2025 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)
🌐 Hosted via Zoom
🎟️ $20 per person:
Pay per drop-in class via PayPal
OR
Included in Conservatory of Dark Delights membership.
📘 Workbook included
Your boundaries are valid. Your curiosity is sacred. Let's explore with care.
**PayPal Payments are processed manually so there may be a delay from when you make payment until receiving your link**
The class link is e-mailed to the e-mail you use with PayPal.
The presenter view and slides of live classes will be recorded and a video replay will be available if you can't attend the classes!
Content Warning: All classes will address vulnerable intimate needs. Based on the needs of the participants, discussion may cover any number of sensitive and potentially triggering topics. Please be prepared to take a break/step away for a few moments if an uncomfortable topic for you comes up. Prearrangements can be made to text/message you when the sensitive topic has stopped being discussed.
Attending Live Classes:
Dress Code – At home comfy. No Genitals. Shirts on please.
Safe Space – We will be discussing sensitive topics so respect is required. Please be advised that if you are disrespectful to other participants, the organizers, or in general you may be booted from the class and will forfeit your class fee. No refunds.
Refund Policy via Paypal:You may request refund (minus PayPal fees), up to 48 hours before the date and time of the class. There will be no refunds after that, however you will receive the class materials and email access to ask questions about the materials.
Refund Policy via Conservatory of Dark Delights: No refunds as you have immediate access to digital replay classes in the library. Patreon may issue refunds at their sole discretion as stated here.
